The Whore's Bedroom

17. Veteran Stripper Chiqui Love on gold diggers, dating vs escorting, and 20 years in the industry

The Whore's Bedroom

Show Notes

Chiqui Love joins me for a lively discussion on her decades of experience as a stripper, how sex work has changed her approach to both dating and feminism, and how the industry has changed since she got her start in London in the early 2000’s.

 Chiqui Love is a stripper, burlesque, and cabaret artist and all round erotic entertainer. With over 22 years’ experience in the industry, she combines different elements of performance into her own unique style, and is also a sex worker rights advocate. She was the founding member of not one, but two stripper’s collectives, one in London and one in Berlin.

Follow Chicqui on socials: https://www.instagram.com/chiquilovelovelove/

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