Curious Equestrian

See Your Horse, Not Your Idea of Your Horse | Kate Sandel

Curious Equestrian

Show Notes

Horse trainer and author Kate Sandel invites you to rethink what it really means for a horse to be well – in body and in mind. If your horse isn’t mentally with you, she argues, you’re not truly training together, you’re just doing things to them. In this conversation, we explore how to see the horse in front of you more clearly, soften your expectations, and build a partnership that feels good for both of you. Drawing on French classical riding, horsemanship, and bodywork, Kate shares practical ways to centre the horse’s experience in everyday training choices. Why you can’t separate a horse’s physical soundness from their emotional state.

How to notice who your horse actually is, instead of who you hoped they’d be.

The truth behind so‑called “naughty” behaviour, and what it might be telling you.

Why simple walking with your horse is one of the most underrated tools you have.

What really makes a great teacher – for horses and for humans in the arena.

How grassroots equestrians can nudge the wider horse world toward kinder training.

Kate is a UK‑based horsemanship teacher, French classical riding practitioner (École de Légèreté trainee), equine sports massage therapist, and author of Riding In Release. From her base on Dartmoor, she runs Soft & Sound, offering lessons, clinics, and online support for more ethical horse–human partnerships. Links and resources Resources & After Hours Q&A (newsletter): https://www.curiousequestrian.co.uk/horse-human-partnership-right-question

Soft & Sound: https://softandsound.org/

Riding In Release: https://uk.bookshop.org/a/4745/9781908809940

Newsletter: https://www.curiousequestrian.co.uk

Bookshop: https://uk.bookshop.org/shop/curiousequestrian

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