S2E18: Clarke Carlisle - From Premier League to Rock Bottom and Back Again
Dare to be Different with Craig WhiteShow Notes
Clarke Carlisle was once known as the “brainiest footballer” — a Premier League defender, PFA chairman, and TV pundit. But behind the public persona was a man crumbling under the weight of expectation, alcohol dependency, depression, and suicidal thoughts. In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Clarke sits down with Craig White to talk about the cost of tying your identity to performance, the masks men wear to survive, and the brutal reality of hitting rock bottom. He also shares the turn...
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