Tony Robbins Podcast Daily

People Buy Experiences, Not Things

Tony Robbins Podcast Daily

Summary

Marketers are increasingly vocal about the inefficiencies of spending on metrics that initially appear favorable but fail to deliver long-term value, a phenomenon referred to as "bull spend." This term highlights the disconnect between flashy metrics and actual business performance, particularly when scrutinized by financial officers. The conversation emphasizes the need for marketers to focus on genuine value rather than superficial indicators.

A key insight shared in the discussion revolves around the six human needs that drive consumer behavior: certainty, uncertainty, significance, connection, growth, and contribution. The speaker recounts a conversation with a successful entrepreneur who emphasized that people are willing to pay a premium to feel significant. This understanding of human psychology can inform marketing strategies, suggesting that businesses should aim to provide more value than their competitors, especially during challenging economic times.

The entrepreneur's strategy during a downturn involved enhancing services and creating unique offerings to attract high-end clients, positioning his business for success when the economy improved. This approach underscores the importance of adding value, which can sometimes mean raising prices rather than cutting them, as a way to maintain healthy profit margins and meet high human needs.

Show Notes

HOW EMOTIONS INFLUENCE PURCHASING DECISIONS

What kind of car do you own? What kind of purse do you carry? What is your favorite brand of clothing? Why?

While product quality and seller reputation matter, the reason we make a purchase goes far beyond the fundamentals. It goes far beyond rational thought. It goes into the subconscious. In fact, research by the Nielsen Company shows that roughly 90% of purchasing decisions are made subconsciously. And further studies have revealed that while our brains process 11 million bits of sensory information every second, our conscious minds can only handle less than 100 per second.

So how does our subconscious determine our decisions? It comes down to our needs and emotions.

Each and every one of us is unique, but we also share six fundamental needs — certainty, significance, variety, love and connection, growth, contribution — that determine how we feel about ourselves, how we feel about others, and how we experience life. And all behavior, including our purchasing decisions, is an attempt to meet our needs.

That $1000 purse you just bought? That $100,000 car you just leased? The $500 jacket you just got? Each of these items can bring an individual significance.

In fact, people will pay disproportionately to feel significant. And this can be true even if the purchase is gift for someone else. Because they subconsciously believe that giving someone a gift will get them attention, appreciation or even love, which ultimately means one thing — significance.

More than this, individuals buy products that they associate with their identity. That electric car you just purchased? You may think it represents someone who is a cool, environmentally-minded, socially conscious, do-gooder. Or that satchel you just purchased from a local craftsman from a village abroad? It may represent someone who is eclectic, worldly and open-minded.

The driving force in life is a need to be fulfilled, and our purchasing decisions are a direct manifestation of this need. Just watch what Tony has to say about it.

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Tony Robbins is a #1 New York Times best-selling author, entrepreneur, and philanthropist. For more than 37 years, millions of people have enjoyed the warmth, humor and dynamic presentation of Mr. Robbins' corporate and personal development events. As the nation's #1 life and business strategist, he¹s called upon to consult and coach some of the world¹s finest athletes, entertainers, Fortune 500 CEOs, and even presidents of nations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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