The Life Stylist

689. The Truth About Nicotine Addiction: Is Nicotine Really Good for Your Health? w/ Luke & Alyson Storey

The Life Stylist

Show Notes

Forty years into a nicotine habit, I tried to quit cold turkey, and it nearly broke me.

Alyson was on the beach communing with grasshoppers and golden orb weavers while I was under the covers in a dark hole, trying to white-knuckle my way off nicotine, mambé, and Ambil after finishing my book.

Same place, drastically different trips.

We get into what happens when a habit doesn't wreck your life but still runs it, and why "biohacker-friendly" substances can be harder to walk away from than anyone tells you. Alyson shares how she attunes to a land before arriving, the message she received before Costa Rica, and the animal encounters that shaped her three weeks there.

I open up about the emotional hangover of writing A Horse Named Lonesome, why microdosing iboga didn't help me the way I hoped, and the conversation with Ian Mitchell that changed my plan.

Casting now: Match with The Field Reveal, an unscripted love series for spiritually-minded/conscious singles who are ready to finally have their match revealed! To be considered for phase one of casting for the Live Love events and/or unscripted reality love series, email [email protected] with your full name, age, city/state, gender, preferred gender for partner, three to five images (one full body/lifestyle), and your three main interests/passions/hobbies by October 1, 2026.

Visit lukestorey.com/melalight and use code LUKE for 15% off.

Visit bioptimizers.com/luke and use code LUKE15 to save 15% off sitewide. Plus, get a free bottle of MassZymes while supplies last.

Visit lukestorey.com/urbanroots and use code LUKE to save 20% off your first purchase and 40% off your first order when you subscribe.

You'll learn:

[0:00] Introduction [2:36] Tuning into the land before arriving and hearing "come here as the new you" [15:53] Why I tried to quit nicotine and coca leaf in Costa Rica [22:43] The shock of going cold turkey off nicotine [30:42] Habit-forming alkaloids that made overuse easy to justify [36:34] Forty years addicted and Ian Mitchell's honest verdict [47:54] The night Alyson’s stern clarity broke through my nicotine fog [1:02:34] The golden orb weaver spider and shifting from fear to love [1:10:14] A Horse Named Lonesome and what writing it without a ghostwriter demanded [1:24:15] Lonesome Conversations and the root of most human suffering [1:36:17] My latest picks from Melalight to QOVA [1:46:17] This month's Field Reveal Energy Forecast

Resources Mentioned:

Coca Leaf | Wikipedia Iboga | Wikipedia Ketamine | Wikipedia Kratom | Wikipedia Nicotine | Wikipedia Ayahuasca | Wikipedia Primeadine | Website NuCalm | Website NeuroVIZR | Website

Full show notes at lukestorey.com/689

Related The Life Stylist Episodes:

Quantum Biology: The Consciousness Connection of Science & Spirit | Podcast

Find more from Alyson:

Alyson Charles Storey | Website | Instagram | X | TikTok | YouTube Get the Animal Power book and deck, plus a free guided drumming shamanic journey to meet your power animal, at alysoncharles.com/animalpower

Find more from Luke:

Luke Storey | Website | Instagram | Facebook | X | YouTube | LinkedIn

My new book, A Horse Named Lonesome, launches November 17, 2026. Pre-order now at ahorsenamedlonesome.com and get bonuses: access to my Inner Circle Book Club, an exclusive Lonesome Conversations six-part miniseries, and an ebook transcript of the series.

The Life Stylist is Brought To You By:

ACTIVATION PRODUCTS | Visit activationproducts.com/luke and use code LUKE for 15% off your order.

BIOPTIMIZERS | Visit bioptimizers.com/luke and use code LUKE15 to save 15% off sitewide.

LEELA QUANTUM | Go to lukestorey.com/leelaq and use code LUKE10 for 10% off your first order.

NUCALM | Visit lukestorey.com/nucalm to start your free seven-day trial and save 15% on your subscription.

More from The Life Stylist

Oct 20, 2026

Thirty minutes after the biggest relief of his life, Dylan Gemelli found out his apartment was being ransacked, with half a kilo of cocaine in the safe.

Oct 18, 2026

I join my brother Kyle Kingsbury for a raw conversation about the life experiences behind my new book, A Horse Named Lonesome. We trace my journey from childhood abuse and addiction to recovery and spiritual awakening, exploring how shame, trauma, and the illusion of separation can keep us disconnected from ourselves and others. We also get into forgiveness, ego death, 5-MeO-DMT, and the hard-earned lessons that ultimately inspired me to share this book with the world.

Oct 16, 2026

In this Lonesome Conversation, Dr. Lipton and I explore his striking claim that loneliness runs against a law of biology—that no organism, from an ant to a bee to a human, survives outside its community. He walks through why we've been programmed to feel separate by religion, politics, nationality, and sex, and who actually benefits when we're isolated and disempowered. A bracing reframe of the loneliness epidemic as a spiritual and biological crisis rather than a personal failing. About Dr. Lipton

Oct 9, 2026

In this Lonesome Conversation, Joel and I explore his reframe that "aloneness can become all oneness" — that you can learn to connect with the earth and sun so deeply you're never truly alone, even in solitude. He shares the story of a teacher who spent 18 years alone doing shamanic practice, and makes the case that intentional solitude, far from something to fear, can be an actual lifeline. A grounding look at why most of us lack the tools to be alone well, and how they can be learned. About Joel Joel Schafer is a personal empowerment mentor and shamanic dreaming arts teacher. Through online courses, one-on-one mentoring, and in-person workshops, Joel trains people in a highly effective way to reclaim vital energy and attention utilizing the Toltec knowledge base. These are powerful, non-linear redistribution techniques that guide and support students in discovering clear purpose, increasing awareness, getting grounded, reclaiming focus, & accessing strong intent. Joel is also an excellent listener and mirror, offering practical but magical solutions to life's challenges.

See all episodes →