Show Notes
The Bad News Nobody Brings You
"Any concerns before we wrap?" Nobody says a word. Twelve minutes later, those same people are in the parking lot saying everything they didn't say in the room.
Nothing was hidden from you. It was routed around you.
Your team isn't quiet because they're disloyal. They're quiet because they've run the math — and there are three reasons it keeps coming out the same way.
In this episode, John Espinosa breaks down why bad news stops traveling up, and gives you The Bad News Bridge: three moves that make it safe, specific, and worth it for your team to tell you the truth.
🔹 THE THREE REASONS THEY STAY QUIET 1. Somebody paid for it last time 2. They assume you already know 3. Last time they told you, nothing happened
🔹 THE BAD NEWS BRIDGE 1. Lower the Price — your first five seconds set the cost of honesty 2. Ask a Sharper Question — "any concerns?" gets polite answers every time 3. Close the Loop — people don't need you to solve it, they need proof it went somewhere
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