The Sam + Jo VA Show

Ep198 When The Line Between Client And Friendship Blurs

The Sam + Jo VA Show

Show Notes

Do you pay your friends to hang out with you?

Do you expect your friends sign contracts before hanging out with you?

No?

Then why are you treating your clients like friends?

It's only natural you'll get close to certain clients, especially the long-term ones who you feel comfortable having a laugh, coffee or a cheeky wine with.

But when the lines start blurring between professional and personal, when you start questioning whether or not you should put your timer on, and when you can no longer decided whether to introduce this person as a client or a friend … well that’s when things can get tricky.

You may assume that this type of close-knit VA/client relationship is one to celebrate. We’re here to tell you that in most cases it’s one to avoid and that having defined, professional boundaries will protect you BOTH.

In this episode you’ll learn:

The VAs most at risk for allowing/encouraging the lines to blur. The unexpected consequences of treating your clients like friends. How to be friendly but not friends with clients.

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