80: Reality vs Expectations

In this episode, I’m calling out the biggest myth of the holiday season—that you can make magic or “craft core memories” for your kids. You can’t. What your child remembers isn’t the matching pajamas or perfect tree—it’s how they felt. I’ll share stories from my own childhood (poverty, oranges, and pancake dinners), and how those simple, cozy moments turned into the most meaningful memories of all. We’ll talk about letting go of consumer pressure, shopping secondhand, teaching gratitude the real way, and surviving family dinners without losing your mind. This episode is your permission slip to slow down, simplify, and remember that love—not stuff—is what your kids will carry forever.

In this episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, we’re talking about a question that trips up so many parents: Should you tell your child ahead of time that you’re starting potty training? Some kids need a heads-up, while others will use that time to dig in their heels. And what about when your toddler says, I’ll potty train when I’m three—do you wait? (Spoiler: No.) Plus, we’ll dive into why kids get so attached to diapers and how your language around potty training can make or break the process. Let’s make this as smooth as possible—because trust me, drawn-out potty training is not the goal!

In this week's episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I’m diving into something I see over and over with parents—how consistency can make or break your potty training journey (and your parenting in general). We chat about how anything done repeatedly becomes a habit, whether it’s good or bad. So if your kid is peeing on the floor every day, guess what? That’s their new normal. I’m breaking down why we sometimes let these patterns slip, how our toddlers are always watching and learning, and why you need to step into your leadership role as a parent—no asking for permission! We’ll talk about shifting from bad consistency to good consistency, and why building that solid foundation in the 0-6 years is key to everything down the road. Rock on, and let’s get you out of that pee-on-the-floor phase for good!

In this week’s episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I’m tackling two major potty training pitfalls: potty word salad and empty praise. 🚽✨ If you’ve ever found yourself saying “potty” a million times a day or over-praising every tiny success, this one’s for you. I break down why too much potty talk can actually backfire and make your kid dig in their heels. Plus, we’re talking about why kids don’t need over-the-top cheerleading—what they really need is authentic, meaningful feedback. Tune in for practical tips to make potty training smoother, less stressful, and way more effective!

In this week’s episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I’m addressing two of the biggest misconceptions about potty training: that it’s a three-day process and that your toddler will self-initiate right away. Spoiler alert—it’s neither of those things! I’m sharing why modern kids, especially post-pandemic toddlers, often need more time and support to master potty training and why self-initiation usually happens weeks after starting, not days. Plus, I’ll dive into the importance of understanding your child’s pee signals and patterns and why realistic expectations can make or break this process. Whether you’re gearing up for potty training or dealing with daycare challenges, this episode is packed with insights and practical advice to keep you and your little one on track.