
Caregiver Tips: How to Do the Hard Stuff
The Caring Generation®: Family Caregiving Expert Advice & TipsShow Notes
Caregivers do a lot of hard things. Doing the hard stuff, like having care discussions in the family or making difficult decisions, can be emotionally stressful and guilt-filled.
In episode 208 of the Caring Generation podcast, caregiving expert Pamela D Wilson shares: 1) how to understand when a problem or question is more complex than it looks, which is often the case in caregiving, 2) how emotions and feelings of guilt impact doing the hard stuff, 3) why waiting to deal with an uncomfortable issue might make problems more challenging in the future 4) the benefits of starting today and making progress to do the hard stuff
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Pamela D. Wilson is a professional family caregiving and eldercare expert. As a caregiving consultant, expert witness, eldercare mediator and speaker, she provides caregiver advice and tips, individual and family caregiver support, and resources for aging and elder care decision-making. Pamela's 25 years of professional experience inform caregiving discussions, eldercare strategies, and care plans that encompass health, healthcare, financial, and legal aspects, as well as family dynamics. Visit Pamela's website at www.PamelaDWilson.com to access caregiver resources, online courses, her caregiving blog, library, book, videos, and podcast transcripts, offering practical advice and tips for aging adults and family caregivers providing elder care support. ©2018, 2026 Pamela D Wilson. All Rights Reserved
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