EP.13 Emotional Maturity vs. Emotional Capacity: What Compatibility Really Looks Like with Barb Hill
Dating and Desire PodcastShow Notes
What if the person you love can't actually meet you where you need to be met? Therapist and author Barb Hill joins Bridgett and Lauren for a conversation that reframes what Christian compatibility really requires. Barb walks through five kinds of compatibility (emotional, spiritual, intellectual, physical, and how they all interact) and draws a line that changes the whole dating conversation: the difference between emotional maturity and emotional capacity. One is what you know about yourself. The other is whether you can actually do something with that knowledge when a conflict hits. Barb explains why so many promising relationships stall right in that gap, and what to look for in the first three months with someone new. The conversation gets into why curiosity is the engine of long-term love, how resentment quietly kills it, and the one question to ask yourself before ending a relationship you thought was going to last. If you've ever wondered whether you're the problem, whether you're asking too much, or whether love really is enough, this one is for you.Connect with Barb Hill 📕 Get her devotional: Seasons of Waiting 🖥️ Holding Space Counseling 📱 Follow Barb on InstagramComing Up: Ready to pursue purity in dating without being weird about it? Join Bridgett for RECLAIM. Next Cohort- Starts May 9th [APPLICATIONS OPEN NOW]
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