Show Notes
Today, I discuss your inability to let go.This autopilot-mode that you can't seem to let go of.Wake up, coffee, get kids ready, washing on, off to work, emails, meetings, get home, cook, manage kids, it's 8pm ... and you're exhausted.Too exhausted to even consider prioritising your own needs.
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