The Trial Of Lori Vallow Daybell | Full Courtroom Coverage

What Melani Pawlowski Wanted a Week After Lori Vallow Was Arrested

The Trial Of Lori Vallow Daybell | Full Courtroom Coverage

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The last part of our panel on Melani Pawlowski looks at her life after Lori Vallow's arrest in Hawaii on February 20, 2020. Psychotherapist Shavaun Scott and retired FBI behavior chief Robin Dreeke join me on the custody fight in Mesa, where Melani asked for joint custody a week later and her attorney told the court where her loyalty still sat. Brandon's side filed a memo attributed to her new husband saying she'd been told Brandon needed to die. By January 2021, her full visitation was set to return. A Gilbert detective had sworn she was a person of interest in the shooting at Brandon, and at Lori's 2025 trial a prosecutor argued she was part of the plot. Melani has never been charged in that shooting and denies any part in it, and she declined to talk to Dateline in October 2026. Listen Anywhere You Get Podcasts: https://pod.link/1655749292 Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod?sub_confirmation=1 Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod This publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice. #LoriVallow #MelaniPawlowski #HiddenKillers #MelaniBoudreaux #ChadDaybell #ShavaunScott #RobinDreeke #TrueCrime #BrandonBoudreaux #TrueCrimeCommunity

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Oct 29, 2026

In the second part of our panel on Melani Pawlowski, psychotherapist Shavaun Scott and retired FBI behavior chief Robin Dreeke go inside the months she spent living next door to her aunt Lori Vallow in Rexburg, Idaho. Melani testified she was taught some people carried a darkness that couldn't be cast out and would end up killing them. Brandon Boudreaux testified she asked for a divorce after saying God told her he was gay. On a recorded call after Alex Cox's death, she told Lori she wanted Brandon to stay afraid of Alex. A memo attributed to her new husband, Ian, says she feared JJ and Tylee "needed to die." Around the same time, by her own account, Alex stood as a witness at her wedding. Melani has never been charged in the shooting at Brandon and denies any part in it. Listen Anywhere You Get Podcasts: https://pod.link/1655749292 Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod?sub_confirmation=1 Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod This publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice. #LoriVallow #MelaniPawlowski #HiddenKillers #MelaniBoudreaux #ChadDaybell #ShavaunScott #RobinDreeke #TrueCrime #BrandonBoudreaux #TrueCrimeCommunity

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Melani Pawlowski, then Melani Boudreaux, was Lori Vallow's niece and a mother of four in Gilbert, Arizona, when Lori started pulling her into the world she shared with Chad Daybell. Psychotherapist Shavaun Scott and retired FBI behavior chief Robin Dreeke join me for the first part of a three-part panel on how it happened. Lori was the one who told Melani her mother had died when Melani was a child, and Brandon Boudreaux testified Lori became a mother figure to her. Melani met Chad in November 2018 and testified she'd heard he had a gift for seeing light and dark in people. Brandon says she shut him out of the firesides and wanted a huge food-storage purchase at once. This part covers how the pull began and the small signs that come first. Melani has never been charged in the shooting at Brandon and denies any part in it. Listen Anywhere You Get Podcasts: https://pod.link/1655749292 Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod?sub_confirmation=1 Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod This publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice. #LoriVallow #MelaniPawlowski #HiddenKillers #MelaniBoudreaux #ChadDaybell #ShavaunScott #RobinDreeke #TrueCrime #BrandonBoudreaux #TrueCrimeCommunity

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