The Don't Buy Her Flowers Podcast

Let’s talk about dying, with Anna Lyons and Louise Winter

The Don't Buy Her Flowers Podcast

Show Notes

As an End of Life Doula and a Funeral Director, Anna Lyons and Louise Winter have more experience of death and dying than most. They talk with Steph about why it is their mission to get people talking more about the inevitable, and share what they’ve learned through their work about life and living.

Steph talks with Anna and Louise about why their message is important and reframing death, how we prepare for parents dying, talking to children and showing up for someone who has been bereaved.

Anna and Louise’s book ‘We All Know How This Ends’, is also available in Don’t Buy Her Flowers packages from 26th May.

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