The Whore's Bedroom

20. The truth about dating

The Whore's Bedroom

Show Notes

A bit of a different topic today, but one I'm incredibly passionate about - my opinions on dating men, as a straight cis woman. This is purely about dating in personal life (not about my clients), and it's such an important facet of many women's lives.

This isn't a comprehensive totality of my views - I would have to talk for a few hours to get everything out! I'd love to hear your opinion in the comments and start a conversation.

TikTok accounts mentioned: https://www.tiktok.com/@texasgardenfairy https://www.tiktok.com/@the_yv_edit https://www.tiktok.com/@observationswithmyeyes (tip: if you don't have the TikTok app, you can watch all videos without having to download it or log in by viewing the links on desktop!)

Books mentioned: Why Men Love Bitches, Sherry Argov Calling in The One, Katherine Woodward Thomas

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