The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

The Stroke-a-thon Returns: Four Femdom Guests with Secrets to Edging Survival

The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

Show Notes

We have a challenge for you if you are UP to the task. We’re doing a Stroke-a-thon! This is an interactive, multi-Mistress cock teasing event. It’s our most popular jerk off challenge because 15 sexy women try to make you cum, while you desperately try not to. The last cock standing get a FREE 60 minute session with one of the participating ladies. 2nd and third place finishers also get prizes and everyone loves the fun and energy so really there are no losers.

Today’s episode features four friends. Mistress Becky and Ms Hunter are both Strok-a-thon veterans. Ms Bianca and Ms Hadley are new to the event but well versed in cock control and edging instructions. Of course, Ms Olivia and Ms Erika will be there.

We open with Ms Becky of the KINKology podcast, who treats a stroking session like conducting a filthy orchestra—she’s the maestro controlling all those hard dicks. Ms Becky has been to earlier Stroke-a-thons and says that the energy of multi-Mistress mayhem with so much erotic talent is one space is one of her favorite things.

Mistress Hadley is new to the Stroke-a-thon, but certainly not new to cock control. She gives a sneak peek in some of her JOI knowledge. Ms Hadley reminds us that the 15 Mistresses participating in Stroke-a-thon aren’t going to be fair, we’re going to try and make you cum, any way we can (hint: and we CAN).

This year’s event is also the first one for Ms Bianca. She offers this advice: don’t worry if you are also a first time stroker; treat the Stroke-a-thon as erotic exploration. After all, sampling new Mistress flavors is the spice of submissive life—she is already enjoying the pre-game and promises a blast.

Ms Hunter tells us about some of the psychological mindfucks that await and why this is both challenging and fun. As a veteran of previous Stroke-a-thons, Mistress Hunter points out that some chastity pets and sissies will be there even if they aren’t allowed to stroke. Awww, now that really isn’t fair. Imagine the ache!

All the details including the 2 ways to qualify are on this Stroke-a-thon announcement on The Daily Cock. If you can’t access the blog, get in touch with any of us and we’ll get you all the info.The Details:When: Saturday, May 23rd at 8:00 PM Eastern Where: Private Discord server Prize: Last Man Standing wins a free 60-minute session Entry: Strictly limited—act fast or spend the night regretting it Which Mistress will be the one to make you lose control?

Contact us:

DISCORD: LDWErika, LDWOlivia, LDWBecky, LDWBiance, LDWHadley, LDWHunter

Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress, email: [email protected]

Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy, email: [email protected]

Ms Becky’s blog: Intelligent Phone Sex Calls, email: [email protected]

Ms Bianca’s blog: Kinky Phone Fantasy, email [email protected]

Ms Hunter’s blog: Intelligent Fantasies, email: [email protected]

Ms Hadley’s Cock Control profile, email: [email protected]

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