Show Notes
Learn how to communicate with Luna and take away practical tools for creating clearer, more honest, curious, and connected conversations in your own relationships.
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⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 How GG & Kimberly learned to talk to Luna 06:19 Directness, honesty, and saying what you actually want 10:28 Creating a shared reality and the importance of congruence 15:33 Never “never mind” Luna and navigating sarcasm 19:33 Tone, masking, and asking instead of assuming 23:19 Long-form noodling, interruptions, and active listening 27:41 Be direct, kind, and complete—and bring your own perspective 31:15 Tiny delights, communication containers, and generosity 34:19 Food as a love language & creating connection together
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🤩 TOPICS | Active listening skills, adult communication, adult relationships, asking clarifying questions, authentic communication, being yourself, body language, boundaries in communication, communication expectations, communication styles, communication tips, conversational skills, curiosity in relationships, emotional connection, emotional honesty, exchanging information, explaining jokes, expressing needs, expressing yourself, healthy boundaries, healthy communication, honest conversations, human connection, interpersonal communication, kindness in relationships, literal communication, love languages, masking and unmasking, meaningful conversations, nervous system regulation, neurodivergent communication, OnlyFans messaging rules, open communication, performance art, personal boundaries, positive language, positive reframing, relationship communication, relationship skills, self-awareness, self-expression, self-judgment, sex worker boundaries, sex worker communication, sex worker etiquette, sexual communication, shame spirals, sharing personal interests, social cues, social media boundaries, talking trains, tipping sex workers, trust in relationships, understanding communication differences, verbal communication, words and actions matching See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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