Adulting with Horses

Bitless Adventures: When Horses and Humans Go Hands-Free!

Adulting with Horses

Show Notes

In this engaging conversation, Natalie and Heather explore various themes related to self-care, equine care, and personal growth. They discuss the challenges of equine expos, the importance of morning routines, and the balance between work and personal life. The conversation also delves into riding techniques, understanding horse behavior, and the significance of setting boundaries. With a light-hearted tone, they share personal anecdotes and insights, emphasizing the joy found in simple things and the power of authenticity. Keywords self-care, equine expos, horse riding, personal growth, boundaries, adulting wins, bitless riding, mare energy, confidence, sleep, work-life balance Takeaways

Morning routines set the tone for the day. Equine expos can be overwhelming but rewarding. Riding techniques can improve with practice and patience. Balancing work and personal life is essential for well-being. Sleep is crucial for productivity and mental health. Understanding horse behavior enhances riding experience. Confidence in riding comes from practice and self-awareness. Adulting wins can be found in small achievements. Setting boundaries is important for personal growth. Embracing the energy of mares can inspire strength and determination.

Chapters

00:00 Morning Routines and Self-Care 02:57 The Challenges of Equine Expos 06:01 Understanding Horse Behavior and Circadian Rhythms 09:03 Balancing Work and Personal Life 12:05 Planning for Family Adventures 14:57 Exploring Bitless Riding and Training Techniques 19:57 Understanding Riding Dynamics 27:55 The Importance of Body Positioning 32:15 Managing Anxiety and Riding Confidence 40:53 Living Arrangements and Personal Space 41:49 Building Confidence Through Horses 42:18 Learning Boundaries from Horses 43:24 Listening to Horses: A Case Study 44:48 Embracing Mare Energy 47:31 The Power of Mares in Performance 49:58 Adulting Wins and Personal Growth 52:00 Exciting Life Updates and Future Plans 54:38 Finding Joy in Simple Pleasures 56:56 Authenticity in Podcasting

Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

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