445: I'll be more comfortable with a drink [Thought Swap]
Take a Break from Drinking: Practical Tools to Drink Less & Change Your Relationship with AlcoholShow Notes
Do you feel more comfortable with a drink in your hand at social events?
For years, my solution to social anxiety was simple: head straight to the bar, grab a drink, and feel that familiar wave of relief wash over me as the edges of my nervousness softened. But what happens when that glass becomes less of a choice and more of a requirement for feeling comfortable around other people?
Listen in this week to hear three thought swaps that will help you start questioning whether you're really more comfortable with a drink in your hand. This isn't about avoiding social situations or telling yourself alcohol is bad. It's about understanding the difference between masking discomfort and actually feeling comfortable in your own skin.
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