The Loneliness of the "Perfect" High Functioning Woman - High Functioning Women Series Part One [374]
Flying FreeShow Notes
So many capable, gifted Christian women are living a double life that is impressive in public, but diminished in private, and they don't even have words for what's happening to them. This episode will change that.
🔑 Key Takeaways: There's a specific kind of loneliness that has nothing to do with being sad, and it's far more common among high-functioning Christian women The reason you can run a business, lead a ministry, and hold everything together but still feel like no one actually knows you Why the very things people praise you for might be the things that are slowly killing you What's really happening in your body when you live this way, and why it's not a spiritual problem Get Today’s Free Resource:
🧐 I wrote a book just for high functioning Christian women called Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Get a free chapter by going to isitmebook.com
I will also send you my weekly Hope Letters for Christian women in emotionally and spiritually abusive marriages.
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