Show Notes
Most people think the biggest lies come from the media, politicians, or social media. They don’t. AJ sits down with psychologist and author Owen Fitzpatrick to explore the hidden force shaping our decisions every day: inner propaganda. Drawing from decades of research on beliefs, persuasion, cults, identity, and psychology, Owen explains why smart people are often the easiest to fool, how emotions shape our reality, and why the stories we tell ourselves can either limit us or transform us. This conversation explores self-deception, identity, influence, emotional intelligence, and the practical tools you can use to challenge your assumptions, update your beliefs, and become more resilient in a world full of competing narratives.
Chapters00:00 – The question that changed Owen’s life07:00 – Why self-influence comes before influencing others13:00 – What “inner propaganda” really means20:00 – Why smart people are easier to fool27:00 – Identity, beliefs, and the stories we tell ourselves34:00 – Antifragile thinking and overcoming setbacks40:00 – Information overload and attention management47:00 – Influence, manipulation, and emotional triggers54:00 – Emotional granularity and better decision making
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