Show Notes
"I kept telling her, 'We've got this.' And inside, I had no clue what was coming next." What does it look like to be "the strong one" when your world is falling apart? In this episode, Katie Taylor sits down with Jared Muscat—dad, surfer, and self-proclaimed "dad-vocate"—to share his family's unexpected journey into the NICU after a high-risk pregnancy. From a routine 20-week appointment to welcoming his son Ollie at just 25 weeks, Jared opens up about fear, resilience, and what it means to show up as a partner and father in crisis. He shares the emotional weight of protecting his family while processing his own grief, the importance of finding support, and how small rituals—like late-night NICU visits and lullabies—helped him bond with his son. This is an honest, heartfelt conversation about fatherhood, vulnerability, and the strength it takes to keep going when nothing feels certain. What You'll Hear in This Episode: The moment everything changed during a routine pregnancy appointment
Navigating uncertainty, fear, and decision-making as a dad and partner
The emotional experience of becoming a NICU parent overnight
How Jared balanced supporting his wife, caring for his older son, and coping himself
The power of routines, community, and finding other dads who understand
What bonding looks like in the NICU—and the moment it finally clicked
Life after the NICU and adjusting to a new normal at home
Key Takeaways: Dads experience deep emotional strain in the NICU—often quietly
You don't have to carry everything alone—finding support is essential
Small, consistent rituals can create stability in chaos
Bonding doesn't always happen immediately—and that's okay
The NICU feels endless, but it won't last forever
About Our Guest: Jared Muscat is a father of two, a marketing agency owner, and a passionate advocate for NICU dads. Through his own experience, he now supports other families navigating complex medical journeys. Resources to Support NICU Families The NICU Dad Listen to Alex's Story here.
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