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'I found my 14-year-old son dying’ | A mother’s urgent warning | Sense Check

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Show Notes

In this episode of Sense Check, host Nicola Thorp sits down with Ellen Roome, whose 14-year-old son Julian “Jools” Sweeney tragically died in April 2022.

Ellen believes Jools's death is directly linked to the content he was viewing on social media.

Now, she is on a mission to save other children. After being blocked from accessing her son's TikTok data, Ellen is taking legal action against the platform and successfully campaigning to change UK law so bereaved parents can automatically access their children's online data—efforts that recently earned her a Pride of Britain award.

In this interview, Ellen shares advice for parents navigating the digital age and urges families to adopt a strict "no phones in the bedroom" rule to stop late-night doomscrolling and advises delaying smartphone ownership for as long as possible.

Watch to hear Ellen’s powerful story and learn how you can better protect your children from unseen online harms.

In relation to Ms Roome’s case, a TikTok spokesman previously told the Mirror: “Our deepest sympathies remain with these families. We strictly prohibit content that promotes or encourages dangerous behaviour. Using robust detection systems and dedicated enforcement teams to proactively identify and remove this content, we remove 99% that's found to break these rules before it is reported to us. As a company, we comply with the UK’s strict data protection laws.”

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