Episode 71: A Blended Family, with Suyenne Mauro

Suyen Mauro shares her journey of motherhood, detailing the challenges and joys of raising her son Seth, who was born in 2004 after a difficult labor. Mauro describes her experience as a first-time mother, highlighting the protective instincts that emerged immediately after his birth. Despite a long and complicated labor, which included concerns over Seth's health, she expresses gratitude for the support she received from medical staff and her family.

Mauro reflects on her upbringing in Gibraltar, emphasizing the close-knit family environment that shaped her values. She discusses the transition from being a single mother to forming a blended family with her partner, who has three children of his own. The dynamics of their household, where the children share a strong bond, illustrate the challenges and rewards of co-parenting. Mauro concludes with a message of authenticity, encouraging parents to be true to themselves and to embrace the complexities of parenting.

KEY TOPICS: 1 birth, natural delivery, posterior labour, single mum, blended family

Suyenne Mauro knew she was pregnant in 2003 before taking any test.. as her body let her know! She and her then-partner were thrilled to learn that a little boy was on the way.

It was a good pregnancy and Suyenne felt well, but scan images concerned her. She speaks about mother's instinct, and a very difficult, lengthy labour. Her baby was in back-to-back position and both were distressed, but with skilful midwife manouvering, Suyenne dodged a caesarean section. Her little boy was born safely, and she vowed she would never go through childbirth again.

Her son was a very unsettled and hungry baby with allergies and respiratory issues emerging. We discuss those early months as Suyenne adjusted to motherhood, becoming a family of two as she split from her partner. She formed strong connections with other single parents, and had good family support in her son's life.

Suyenne speaks so well about that protective 'mama-bear' feeling, of wanting to do whatever it takes to care for your baby... even once they're adults! There's a lovely twist in our story as she describes becoming a blended family with her new partner's similar-aged grown children... just don't call her 'step mum!'

There's lots of honesty and positivity in this episode, and I'm grateful to Suyenne for sharing her Gibraltar Birth Story (Recorded September 2026). Find 'Born on the Rock: Gibraltar Birth Stories' on Facebook and Instagram for more Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.