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Dr. Tara: From Catholic School to Sex Professor: Breaking Shame Around Women’s Sexuality

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Show Notes

What happens when a girl from a sexually repressed Buddhist household, who attended an all-girls Catholic school, becomes one of the world's most recognized sex educators? You get Dr. Tara — tenured professor, bestselling author, and TV personality on Celebs Go Dating — and she's holding absolutely nothing back. In this episode of The BILFPod, we're going there. Like, ALL the way there. Dr. Tara breaks down why sexual communication is the #1 predictor of long-term relationship satisfaction (backed by a 5,000-person study), why the Madonna-Wh*** complex is destroying women's confidence, and why the way someone behaves in bed tells you everything about who they are in life. We also get into: 🔥 The difference between Eros vs. Storge love styles — and why mismatching them leads to divorce 🔥 Why sex-positive parenting raises kids that make smarter decisions 🔥 Open relationships, polyamory, and why there's no one-size-fits-all 🔥 "Erotic solutions" for couples with different sexual profiles 🔥 Her viral sex personality test from her book How Do You Like It? 🔥 Why shame around sexuality is doing humanity a disservice This isn't the sex ed you got in school. This is the real conversation women deserve to have. 📖 Grab Dr. Tara's book How Do You Like It? at www.luvbites.co 📲 Follow Dr. Tara: on Instagram & TikTok 💬 Drop a comment 👍 Like, subscribe, and share this with a friend who needs to hear it.

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