I Said What I Said with Shane McCarthy

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I Said What I Said with Shane McCarthy

Show Notes

Shane is back with another Monday Dilemmas, and this week he’s returning with the updates ye were waiting for and answers from the woman seeking advice.

After last week’s messy situation one woman finding out (through her husband) that a friend’s husband is cheating Shane is back to talk it through properly: how close the friendships actually are now, what “proof” even means in a situation like this, and whether keeping quiet is protecting your friend… or just protecting yourself.

They weigh up the fallout, why the husband has to be on board, and the best way to tell her if you do.

Plus, next week’s dilemma: is her boss crossing a line, or is she overthinking it?

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