Show Notes
What would you do if you had to give birth in the middle of a war?
In this episode, I sit down with Natalia, a Ukrainian mother of two, to hear her incredible story of freebirthing her second child during the 2022 Russian invasion.
After one homebirth, Natalia chose to walk an even more radical path with her second—preparing to give birth without medical support, while bombs dropped around her and sirens became part of daily life.
What’s most striking is that on the day her son was born, the chaos paused. For the first time in weeks, there was silence. A stillness descended over her city, allowing Natalia to give birth in a sacred bubble of peace amidst the war. A divine mercy.
We speak candidly about what it was like to prepare for a physiological birth during trauma and survival mode. We explore how she tended to herself postpartum while navigating a broken system that refused to acknowledge her birth. We talk about stopping her hemorrhage, the bureaucratic battle to register her baby, and the heartbreaking search for breast milk when her body struggled to produce.
This conversation is a living testament to maternal instinct, spiritual resilience, and the unshakable power of sovereign birth—even in the most unimaginable of circumstances.
Inside this episode:
How Natalia prepared for freebirth while her country was under siege The eerie silence that fell over her city as she birthed her son Navigating postpartum hemorrhage alone—and what she did to stop it Her struggle to obtain a birth certificate in a system that denied her reality What it took to find donor breast milk for her newborn The spiritual strength and sovereignty required to give birth during war
Timestamps:
[00:00] Introduction [12:14] The beginning of a wild pregnancy and the realization that she would give birth alone [16:42] Preparing for a freebirth as war begins [21:19] Fleeing home as war erupts during late pregnancy [26:16] Giving birth in the middle of war and finding unexpected peace [32:33] Facing postpartum hemorrhage and delivering the placenta [44:53] Struggling to register a home birth during war and navigating survival choices
Resources Mentioned:
The Power of Women by Sister MorningStar | Book Sister Morningstar | Website If you want to connect with Natalia, follow her on Instagram and visit her website.
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