Show Notes
Many people feel pulled toward someone who isn’t good for them, even when they know the relationship is toxic. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five core reasons we become addicted to people who mistreat us — from erotic charge, to low self-worth, to boredom and unmet needs. She shares personal experience, clinical insight, and the psychology of desire to help listeners finally understand their patterns. This episode is about clarity, self-compassion, and choosing something better.
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