Adoption: The Making of Me. An Oral History of Adoptee Stories

Jane: The Wound Beneath the Joy

Adoption: The Making of Me. An Oral History of Adoptee Stories

Show Notes

Jane was adopted at twelve days old in a privately arranged adoption in 1964, joining a loving couple on the Isle of Wight who, despite limited income and her father’s disability from polio, provided her with a stable and nurturing home. Though she has lived a joyful and fulfilled life, raising five children of her own, Jane continues to carry the subtle lifelong wounds of relinquishment-feelings that surface most strongly around her birthday.

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