Wondering Jews with Mijal and Noam

Modesty in Judaism: What Tzniut Really Means (Beyond Dress Codes)

Wondering Jews with Mijal and Noam

Show Notes

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Mijal and Noam dive into the fraught conversation around tzniut (modesty), blending Jewish sources with personal stories and lived experience. They unpack what Jewish law actually says, debunk common myths about dress codes, oppression, and liberation, and wrestle honestly with how modesty shows up in real communities. Ultimately, they expand tzniut beyond clothing—toward dignity, humility, self-awareness, and agency.

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