Show Notes
Have you ever found yourself unleashing your anger unintentionally onto someone you love? Your partner, your kids? What if we told you there’s a much healthier way to release your rage and that it’s through sex? Between your legs is an untapped world of power and pleasure. This sacred, amazing place is capable of helping you dig deeper into every single emotion you could ever experience and release it in a much more positive and energetic way. In this episode, we’re showing you how to use it to unleash anger and rage consensually through self-pleasure and sex with your partner. We’re also exploring the higher level of intimacy found in turning yourself on as Flynn shares his experience of letting go of porn and moving into the full experience of his own body. This is self-love, self-awareness, and self-acceptance like you’ve never heard before. Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to learn how to healthily release your anger through sex, quit porn, and begin turning yourself on. Be sure to DM us on Instagram and let us know your thoughts on moving into a deeper, fuller expression of all your emotions through self-pleasure and sex. Get all the juicy episode notes at https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/23-rage Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.
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The only thing we know how to share is the truth. And that truth is, dear listeners, that this is very likely our last episode. And needless to say, we’re feeling quite emotional about it. But we’re also basking in celebration over what we've created together. We have reached so many people (over half a million downloads) and have poured so much of our truth into this work and our mission to show people the truth of intimacy, love, communication, and integrity. And we are very proud of that. So in today’s emotional episode, we’re sharing what led to this moment, saying goodbye to you, our amazing listeners, and welcoming all the amazing things yet to come. Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to say goodbye. Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/70-farewell Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations at manifesturbation.com. Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
What are our views on polyamory and open relationships? How to overcome shame around masturbation? Do we work with couples? These are just some of your questions that we’re answering in today’s episode. And though we‘re not having sex, we are riding your questions straight into a full-blown answer climax. And, of course, we go really deep on each of these questions to help you find the answers you’re looking for so that you can grow and learn on this amazing journey with us. We’re diving into polyamory and open relationships (the difference between them, our views, and whether we would ever consider either), greeting shame head-on, and surrendering to challenge and resistance. So grab your headset, tune in, and find out the answers to your questions! (And if you’d like to hear your questions answered in a future episode, the best place is to send them to us on Instagram @laceyandflynn.) Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/69-polyamory Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations at manifesturbation.com. Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
A rare silver Yeti lived in the deepest part of the forest. She was magical and creative, but she was very big, and all of the other creatures were scared of her and couldn't reconcile how tender she was with her brutish appearance… Not knowing that this would turn into the episode that it did, we start today with a very special and magical bedtime story that turned out to be so much more. We explore the true meaning behind Lacey’s bedtime story, her recent experience that has left her with a vulnerability hangover, and feeling misunderstood (and how to handle it). Because though we both feel truly called to do this work, the truth is that it takes a lot of strength to hold the unknown and do what feels right. But it is also true that we never know with certainty what’s going to happen, and that can stir up a lot of emotions and raise many fear-based questions. So in today’s episode, we dive into all of this and more. Grab your headset, tune in, and find out if, in reality, Lacey is the true silver Yeti. Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/68-yeti Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations at manifesturbation.com. Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
Let’s play a sex game! After all, sex fun is the best fun. So today, we’re bringing you a (mostly) silly episode with Lacey’s completely made-up sex game. (And yes, you can play along too!) And though today’s episode is light and jovial, it’s also educational and insightful. We do get a bit serious at times as we discuss disrupting the energy of how you approach sex and relationships. We also explore dropping below judgment in order to learn about your sexuality, who you are, what you like, and how you want to live your life. So grab your headset, tune in, and play along with our sex game (with your partner or by yourself)! Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/67-sexfun Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations at manifesturbation.com. Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
Aaand we’re back after an unintentional hiatus! We’re sorry to leave you hanging, so stay tuned for more details on what we’ve been up to. In the meantime, in today’s episode, we’re doing something that we don’t usually do: coming at you with a how-to. As in, how to give a blow job (we kinda gave it away in the title). This isn't your typical how-to, though, because we always want to come at things from an embodied landscape, doing things from within first. So, today we want to take you on a journey of mutual understanding and pleasure, letting go of power dynamic issues, and tuning into your partner. We also share some practical tips and Lacey’s Queen of Pressure and Turkish Dancer techniques. Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to learn all you need to know when it comes to blow jobbing! Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/66-blowjob Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations at manifesturbation.com. Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.