How to Eliminate Toxic People and Build Your Inner Circle

Did you know that making a good impression happens in just 7 seconds? How can we make those first 7 seconds count?We studied and coded hundreds of hours of Ted Talks based on charisma, credibility, and intelligence and we found a few different patterns that I want to share. And guess what? Most of these aren't even verbal! We found that nonverbal cues matter a lot more than verbal cues.I want to give you the body language hacks that we've studied to be successful so that you can use them to be unforgettable, likable, and trustworthy.In this video:0:00 Intro0:17 How can you teach us how to be more irresistible?2:46 Irresistible quality #13:58 Irresistible quality #25:00 Irresistible quality #3******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ:• Empower Leaders and Managers• Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools• Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration• Improve Client Relations & SalesJoin the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRTimestamps:00:00 Intro01:07 Non-verbal communication matters!02:27 The first 7 seconds02:48 Use your hands03:55 Vocal Charisma04:59 The classic one: a genuine smile!Want more information on how to make a grand entrance and leave a lasting impression? 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/secrets-of-a-successful-ted-talk/******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell!#vanessavanedwards #howtobeirresistible #tedtalkbodylanguage #howtobelikeable Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get ready to dive into the world of core values! We're talking about those fundamental beliefs that make you who you are and drive your daily choices.I'll present you with a list of the top 50 core values, and together, we'll whittle it down to your top five. Buckle up because knowing your core values isn't just fun, it's a game-changer. It'll help you make better decisions and give you a sneak peek into what makes the people in your life tick. Let's get started! 🚀Read more here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/core-values/In this video: 0:00 - Understanding Core Values0:12 - Examples of Core Values0:50 - Honor and Support Core Values0:58 - Identifying Your Core Values1:11 - Selecting Your Top Five Core Values1:54 - Practical Application of Core Values2:06 - Exploring a List of 50 Core Values2:33 - Making Your Selection3:53 - Continuing the Selection Process4:49 - Prioritizing Your Core Values6:50 - Applying Core Values in Decision Making7:37 - Conclusion and Invitation******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Research has shown that hand gestures make anyone more trustworthy, likable and charismatic. In this video, I'm going to teach you what hand gestures you should be using on a daily basis. Hand gestures support memorability, trustworthiness, and clarity. These powerful hand gestures can be used in normal social interactions, networking events, or presentations and can leave a great lasting impression!For some people, hand gestures come naturally, but others must practice. For example, in this video I mention how politicians have to learn how to point in a non-aggressive way. Practice with a friend or in the mirror and nail this powerful nonverbal social cue!Order Cues on Amazon and learn more valuable cues like this here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/Want even more hand gestures? 👉https://www.scienceofpeople.com/hand-gestures/Or order Captivate to learn how to Captivate any room with your social skills: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/In this video:00:00 The importance of hand gestures01:04 Hand Gesture #101:30 Hand Gesture #202:21 Hand Gesture #302:56 Hand Gesture #404:03 Hand Gesture #504:37 Hand Gesture #605:22 Hand Gesture #705:43 How hand gestures relate to charisma******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ:• Empower Leaders and Managers• Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools• Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration• Improve Client Relations & SalesJoin the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell!#vanessavanedwards #handgestures #handgestureswhilespeaking Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Getting compliments isn't always as pleasant as it might seem. When someone gives me a compliment, I kind of cringe and hope the awkward moment is over, but I've found some cool and different ways to respond to compliments, even if you hate being complimented!Learn more about responding to compliments in the full article:👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/funny-responses/In this video:0:00 Intro0:49 Respond to compliments by being grateful1:07 Respond to compliments by being cheeky2:23 Respond to compliments by asking for more3:37: Give a compliment!4:07 Here's my compliment******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a good people person? Do you always know what to say and who to say it to? People skills did not come naturally. Can you learn how to be charismatic? Learning how to develop charismatic personality will help you to influence people around you. In this video, I’ll tell you a story about what I’ve learned about being charismatic. Want more details on charisma?👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/charisma/In this video:0:00 Intro0:35 The secret to getting along with anyone1:35 No one is boring1:59 Final thoughts******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you.With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed.Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more.Join the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person.She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more.Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically.Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick.👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ******Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 http://bit.ly/37ZWNHSP.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell!**** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices