No One Told Us

Episode 106: Rethinking Baby Sleep: A Holistic Approach with Dr. Pamela Douglas

No One Told Us

Show Notes

What if your baby's sleep challenges weren't something to fix but a clue to better understanding their unique needs? In this episode, Rachael sits down with physician, researcher, and founder of the Possums Program, Dr. Pamela Douglas, to explore a holistic, evidence-based approach to infant sleep, feeding, and development.

Together, they discuss why sleep, feeding, sensory development, and emotional well-being are deeply connected, how societal pressures can increase stress for parents, and why responsive, flexible caregiving often leads to better outcomes for the whole family. Whether you're navigating an unsettled baby or simply looking for a gentler approach to infant sleep, this episode offers practical, reassuring guidance.

Inside this episode:

Why sleep, feeding, and sensory development are all connected

The philosophy behind the Possums approach to infant care

The five domains that can contribute to an unsettled baby

Common myths about overstimulation and baby sleep

Why outdoor play and sensory experiences support healthy development

How parental stress can impact the parenting experience

Practical ways to respond to your baby's unique cues

Why flexibility…not rigid routines…helps families thrive

And so much more!

Mentioned in this episode:

The Discontented Little Baby Book by Dr. Pamela Douglas

Possums Program

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Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast.

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