Episode 19 - Parenting House of Horrors: Real Danger or Just Parent Fear?
The Only Adult In The RoomShow Notes
Is your parenting brain sounding the alarm over something truly dangerous, or just writing its own horror movie? Lindsay and Suzan are playing a game to find out! In this spooky season episode of The Only Adult in the Room, Lindsay puts Suzan through the Parenting House of Horrors. It’s a rapid-fire game of everyday scenarios like the toddler climbing the playground, the first sleepover, and the first time someone else drives your kid, and Suzan has to decide how scared a parent should really be (and defend her answer). From there, we get real about what’s underneath it all: How to tell helpful fear from unhelpful fear, and why “when everything is fear, nothing is fear” What kids learn when we say “don’t climb, I’m scared you’ll fall” and what to say instead (“I’m right here, baby, I believe you can do it”) Why it’s okay to tell your kids you’re a little nervous without handing them responsibility for your feelings Why dads can be tough and still talk about being scared too How to talk about safety with fact based conversations instead of vague scary ones, without raising an anxious kid Sleepover rules, first time parent mistakes, and why every “first” feels different with each child A simple tool for the next time fear hits: pause, check if it’s real danger, then talk it through with someone you trust No perfect parents here, just two people still figuring it out. Never fear, more episodes are on the way! Got a topic, question, or guest idea for us? Send us an email and let us know.
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