Dose of Benny

What Ballet Teaches You About Suffering, Learning to Swim on YouTube & Deciding Who You Are in the Pain | #013 Jem Cooper

Dose of Benny

Show Notes

Jem Cooper podiumed at The Guzzler 100km on her first ever attempt at the distance. Eighteen months before that, she'd never run further than 21km. What sits underneath that is a story I didn't expect. Jem began ballet at four years old. Entered professional ballet school at twelve, before serious illness, and then a decision she made on a rainy London street ended all of it before her twentieth birthday. We get into what it actually costs to lose the thing you've been your whole life, twice. The triathlon detour that started with a cousin's Ironman and a YouTube swim tutorial. Six weeks of forcing herself into a freezing lake in tears. A coach who took her from 75km weeks to 165km weeks and the stress fracture that followed. And the single decision she made before The Guzzler that mattered more than any of her pacing. There's also a proper conversation in here about downhills, eccentric loading and why vert isn't the number you should be obsessing over. Plus, something Jem says about turning thirty that I think a lot of women are thinking but not always saying out loud. Follow Jem: @jemcooper 00:00 The Guzzler podium that started this 01:48 Ballet at four, and the illness that ended plan A 07:32 Where the competitiveness comes from 14:45 Sheep, pigs and pointe shoes: growing up in Hereford 20:25 Walking out at 19 — Pilates, uni and rebuilding from zero 23:23 The triathlon detour and a proper fear of water 30:18 Stepping away, and the years it took to process it 33:22 The ballerina mindset, and the teacher who saw her 41:26 "We're not trees" — permission to reinvent yourself 44:49 How running found her: Boulder, the Lakes, Australia 50:59 165K weeks, a grade 3 stress fracture, and Tarawera 54:44 Inside The Guzzler: racing the whole field, leading for 64K 59:52 Downhills, eccentric loading and what actually breaks people 01:04:13 100 milers, CCC, and turning 30 Reach out:Coaching inquiries: ⁠https://mailchi.mp/doseofbenny.com/z0ardias6q⁠Instagram: ⁠@bennymatthews.coachEmail: [email protected]

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