Show Notes
In this 2nd episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo sits down with Mila and Roberto to talk about friendships through a neurodivergent lens. Mila shares how friendship has begun to feel more convenient and surface-level over time, leading her to become more guarded and self-reliant. Roberto reflects on long-standing friendships from his youth and how a fallout with a close friend reshaped his understanding of connection.Dr. Kojo also opens up about navigating relationships as someone with ADHD, including difficulty reading people’s intentions and realizing that many past friendships were one-sided. The conversation explores how ADHD affects maintaining relationships, from forgetting to reach out to loved ones to the “out of sight, out of mind” experience that many neurodivergent people relate to.The episode continues with neurodivergent thoughts and listener questions, covering topics like finding community with other neurodivergent people, late autism diagnoses, the impact of hormones on bipolar disorder, and the risks of misdiagnosing bipolar disorder as depression or anxiety. The discussion emphasizes validation, accurate diagnosis, and the importance of proper support and treatment.Find us on all platforms at: @neurodivergentstruggles
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In this 15th episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo and Sydney talk about how ADHD, autism, and modern dating intersect in today’s world. They discuss the challenges of balancing personal growth with relationships, the pressure of defining relationships, situationships, attachment styles, and why clear communication is especially important for neurodivergent individuals navigating romance.
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