Show Notes
The Sober Truth is a great deprogramming AA, deprogramming 12 step and deprogramming the recovery narrative resource filled with modern science. I've compiled a list of all the deprogramming books I recommend here: 📚 Deprogram Book List (my fave deprogram, cult recovery and critical thinking books) Timestamps: 00:00 The Sober Truth Book Intro 01:15 The Sober Truth Book 03:24 Coerced + Court Mandated AA 06:11 Spontaneous Remission 09:38 The Nature of Addiction 11:54 Rehab Industry 15:24 Busting AA Myths 19:45 Counting Abstinence Time Is Useful Myth 21:50 "Drunks" Are All The Same Myth Resources for deconstructing AA: 👉 Deprogram Lounge (community, Zooms, book club, Escape Kit + more) 📚 Deprogram Book List (my fave deprogram, cult recovery and critical thinking books) 🌀 Deprogram AA Course (free your mind at your own pace) Let’s get f*cking free
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