The Kink Consultant

Performance Anxiety, Erectile Dysfunction, Getting Soft? How to have Better Sex: A Conversation with Promescent CEO, Jeff Abraham

The Kink Consultant

Show Notes

Better sex isn't a luxury, it's accessible. And if you're not exploring what's out there to improve your intimacy, you're leaving pleasure on the table.

In this episode, I get to sit down with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, for an honest conversation about sexual wellness, performance anxiety, and why 70% of people using delay spray don't even have premature ejaculation, they just want better sex. Jeff shares his unexpected journey from semiconductor engineering to running a sexual wellness company, and breaks down the real stats on the "arousal gap" (spoiler: the average man lasts 5 minutes and 42 seconds while the average woman needs 18 minutes). We dig into why delay products have gotten a bad rap, how Promescent's formula is different, and what Vita Flux can do for blood flow, libido, and natural lubrication. Jeff also gets real about communication, foreplay that starts hours before sex, and why vulnerability is the foundation of great intimacy.

This episode is practical, sex-positive, and full of solutions. If you want better connection, longer-lasting sex, or just want to level up your intimacy game, this conversation will give you the tools to do it.

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Episode Highlights: 00:00 Changing the Conversation Around Intimacy 27:34 Exploring Sexual Frequency and Refractory Periods 29:19 The Impact of Good Intimacy on Attraction 31:38 Addressing Anxiety and Intimacy 33:30 Menopause and Women's Sexual Health 35:36 Innovations in Female Arousal Products 40:21 The Rise of Male Masturbatory Products 53:58 The Importance of Communication in Sexual Relationships

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