All Out with Jon Dean

Why Are Gay Relationships So F*cking Hard? With Therapist Tom Burette

All Out with Jon Dean

Show Notes

Do you find yourself in and out of relationships? Are you forever single? Are you in a relationship but find it challenging? These are the scenarios we explore in this week's [ALL IN] relationship special with therapist Tom Bruett, LMFT. Tom's book The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men: From Honeymoon to Lasting Commitment offers some guidance on finding, and maintaining, a strong, healthy gay relationship. And as you'll hear in this interview: it sounds as though we need it. Support the show Join the majority of fans and watch the full show on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@watchallout For clips and exclusive content please follow us on Instagram and TikTok: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/watchallout TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@watchallout

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