Show Notes
Dr. Alan Shindel, Dr. Christian Nelson, and Dr. Justin Dubin—leaders in sexual medicine and men's health—join Rena Malik, MD to break down the realities of premature ejaculation. The group challenges myths about duration, reveals why lasting longer isn't always better, and explains why most women don't orgasm from penetration alone. The episode dives into the real clinical definitions, biological and psychological causes, the impact of relationship dynamics and communication, and what actually works for treatment—including behavioral therapies, mental health support, medications, and lifestyle changes. The discussion also confronts misinformation from social media, porn, and online supplements or gadgets, and draws clear lines between evidence-based strategies and hype.
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▶️Chapters:
00:00:00 Introduction00:02:52 How Long Should Sex Last?00:04:02 Rethinking Sex Beyond Penetration00:11:44 Porn, Pressure, and Expectations00:13:52 What Counts as Premature Ejaculation?00:17:46 Partner Expectations and Relationship Strain00:24:54 Anxiety, ED, and Rushing to Finish00:27:26 Biological and Psychological Causes00:34:52 Communication and Therapy00:46:14 Behavioral Tools and Pelvic Floor PT01:20:07 Medications and Treatment Options01:28:06 Online Misinformation and Myths
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