The Post-Separation Abuse Podcast

120. Is 9/5 the new 50:50? Care arrangements after Australia’s 2024 Family Law changes

The Post-Separation Abuse Podcast

Show Notes

Is nine nights/five nights becoming the new default parenting arrangement after Australia’s 2024 family law reforms? Danielle Black examines the rise of 9/5 recommendations in family reports and final outcomes, why mathematical ‘balance’ is not the same as a child-focused assessment, and what protective parents should ask when expert recommendations do not clearly connect the evidence to the proposed parenting schedule. This episode explores equal parenting time, attachment, child...

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