Show Notes
Dating apps are fun… until they’re not.
We were promised love at scale - but what if all we got was dopamine addiction, surface-level swiping, and a generation that’s scared to fall in love the real way?
In this episode, I dive into why I’ve never liked dating apps - and why neuroscience might actually back me up. Inspired by Arthur Brooks’ conversation on Modern Wisdom, we’ll unpack: The 5 chemical stages of falling in love (and how dating apps keep you stuck in the first two) Why most of us are looking for a mirror, not a match — and don’t even realize it The psychology behind why modern dating feels so transactional What hookup culture, bioengineering, and ancient wisdom all have in common
I’m not saying I’ll never use them again. But I am saying this: you can’t swipe your way to soul-level connection.
And if you've ever felt like something’s missing in today’s dating world... this episode might explain why. 🎧 Inspired by: Arthur Brooks x Chris Williamson – Modern Wisdom Episode (Click here to check it out) 🎯 This one’s real. Raw. And might just change how you look at love forever.
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