Show Notes
Toddlers are relentless. They target your heartstrings, they push every boundary, and they will absolutely ask for a third bottle of milk at 2 AM just to see what happens. In this episode Sally and Bec break down the three most common toddler sleep mistakes they see every single day — and exactly how to course-correct without losing your mind.
What You'll Learn:
- Why milk feeds creep back in overnight and how reverse cycling happens with toddlers (not just babies) - How to handle constant bedtime requests and delay tactics without feeding the cycle - Why parent-led associations like couch sleep and cuddle-to-sleep come back after sickness or travel — and how to reset - The bedtime pass strategy for school-aged kids with busy brains - Why toddler tantrums are a developmental milestone, not a parenting failure - How to hold a boundary at 2 AM when your willpower is firmly in your slippers
Chapters: 00:10 – Welcome and comment of the week 01:33 – Mistake 1: Milk feeds creeping back in overnight 05:03 – The reverse cycling trap and how it snowballs 10:40 – How to wean overnight milk with a clear plan 15:29 – Mistake 2: Constant requests to get out of bed 17:23 – Visual checklists and the bedtime pass strategy 23:44 – Why toddler tantrums are actually a milestone 31:32 – Mistake 3: Parent-led associations returning (cuddles, couch sleep) 33:44 – Not being in a rush to make sleep happen quickly 37:32 – Post-sickness and post-travel sleep resets 39:18 – The audit: environment, sleep pressure, settling technique
ABOUT NAP TRAPPED: Nap Trapped is hosted by Sally Woods (The Sleep Concierge) and Bec Maher (The Sleep Centre) — two experienced sleep consultants who work with families around the world. They bring evidence-based guidance, warm realism and zero judgment to every episode.
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