90: Red Flags in Subs

Video version: https://www.patreon.com/posts/90-red-flags-in-112191425

This week we talk about red flags in potential subs. CW: we do discuss instances of abuse.

Chapters

00:00:00 – Patreon Readouts

00:01:12 – Intro

00:07:33 – Not letting the dom ‘leave character’ or act softer

00:17:25 – Not being able to articulate or understand limits

00:22:28 – Responsibility

00:24:10 – CW : Abuse

00:28:52 – Not asking for a Dom’s limits

00:32:29 – Believing their version of a kink is an objective standard, not a personal style

00:39:04 – Expecting Doms to be a ‘fix’ for their issues

00:51:39 – Closing Thoughts

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