Slow Writing: Create at Your Own Pace

66. Creative Flow in Menopause with Vanessa Novissimo Wright

Slow Writing: Create at Your Own Pace

Show Notes

For Part 3 of our cycle series, I’m in conversation with Vanessa Novissimo Wright, a creative communications strategist, writer, and certified life coach for midlife creatives. Before she was fully tapped into her midlife joy and authenticity, Vanessa had a pretty rough perimenopause experience. She generously shares the low points in her journey, which led her to develop a self-care method that keeps her connected to herself and her creative well. If you’re struggling to make sense of this life stage and in need of some wisdom from someone who’s been through it, you don’t want to miss this one. Episode Highlights How her perimenopause symptoms forced her into deep relationship with herself

The daily practice of surrender

The FLOW method that keeps her grounded

Vanessa’s “self-care-bag” and how she made her car a creative cocoon when her kids were young

How a “planting seeds” approach to pave the way for embracing creativity in menopause

Essential practices when you’re experiencing fatigue, brain fog, and can’t string sentences together

The creative permission slips she’s giving to midlife folks she coaches

Releasing perfectionism around journaling

The necessity of fun, whimsy, and joy on the journey

Meet Vanessa Vanessa Novissimo Wright is a creative communications strategist, writer, and certified life coach for midlife creatives. She helps them navigate menopause with creativity and joy so they can show up vibrantly for their community. Using her FLOW self-care method, Vanessa guides clients to embrace this age and stage of life with clarity, creativity, and curiosity. Follow her on Instagram and Substack. + Go to the show notes for links and resources mentioned in the episode + Sign up for my encouraging newsletter + Curl up with one of my books: WILD WORDS and EAT THIS POEM

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