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Is Tough Feedback Dead? - [Glue Guys, EP.38]

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In this candid episode of Glue Guys, Alex, Shane, and Ravi discuss the art of giving and receiving tough feedback. The trio share their most memorable "chew-out" stories from their athletic careers, debate the balance between demanding excellence and offering support, and explore how to create "productive paranoia" in their children. The conversation extends to parenting challenges, maintaining high standards, and concludes with reflections on Rory McIlroy's Masters victory.

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Show Notes:

(00:00:00) Welcome to Glue Guys

(00:01:38) Alex's Biggest Chew Out Story

(00:08:02) Shane's Biggest Chew Out Story

(00:15:48) Robby's Greatest Tongue Lashing

(00:24:23) Productive Paranoia and Leadership

(00:30:37) Instilling Productive Paranoia in Kids

(00:31:18) The Challenge of Letting Kids Fail

(00:32:31) Encouraging Healthy Competition

(00:35:23) Balancing Love, Respect, and Expectations

(00:38:56) Handling Criticism and Tough Coaches

(00:47:29) The Pressure of High Standards

(00:54:19) Parental Support and Pressure

(00:59:34) The Ride Home: A Crucial Moment

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