Sex After 40: What No One Tells Women About Libido, Desire & Hormones
Body Freedom with Michele ScarletShow Notes
<p>Let’s talk about what <em>really</em> happens to your sex life after 40.</p><p>In this raw and refreshing episode, Michele sits down with <strong>Jane Hammond</strong>, Sexual Health Educator and intimacy coach, to dismantle the outdated narratives around female pleasure, libido, and what it means to feel <em>turned on</em>—in every sense of the word.</p><p>We cover:</p><ul><li><p>Why low libido is more common than you think (and what’s actually behind it)</p></li><li><p>How hormones, trauma, stress, and metabolism shape your sex drive</p></li><li><p>The difference between <strong>desire vs arousal</strong> (this alone will change how you view “low sex drive”)</p></li><li><p>What’s <em>normal</em> vs what’s <em>treatable</em></p></li><li><p>Why midlife is the <strong>best time</strong> to reclaim your sexual confidence</p></li><li><p>And how to spark intimacy again—whether you're in a long-term relationship or flying solo</p></li></ul><p>This episode is for the woman who’s felt disconnected from her body, her partner, or her passion—and wants to feel ALIVE again.</p><p>⚡Hit play. Your sexual reawakening starts here.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Don't forget to leave a review or a rating so more women like you can find my podcast!</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>IMPORTANT LINKS:</strong><br>Subscribe to <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@michelescarlet_" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Michele Scarlet on YOUTUBE</a> for more expert episodes on hormones, metabolism, and fat loss after 40.<br>Grab your free Metabolism Kickstart Guide <a href="https://www.michelescarlethealth.com/metabolismkickstart" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">HERE </a>if you're ready to drop 15lbs in the next 90 days!</p><p>Watch my <a href="https://www.michelescarlethealth.com/metabolismreset" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">FREE Metabolism Makeover Webinar</a> and learn the exact steps to boosting your metabolism and losing weight without cutting carbs!</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Michele Scarlet</strong><br>Instagram: @<a href="https://www.instagram.com/michelescarlet_/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">michelescarlet_</a><br>Website: <a href="www.michelescarlet.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">www.michelescarlet.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>Connect with Jane Hammond</p><p>Website: <a href="http://janehammondpac.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">http://janehammondpac.com/</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>🎵 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!)<br>Track: Trendsetter by Mood Maze<br>License code: QMTNUKAZCKTFK5TT</p><p></p>
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