When “Be Positive” Isn’t What Your Teen Needs
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Send us Fan Mail Does telling your anxious teen to “be positive” actually help? As someone whose number one CliftonStrengths theme is Positivity, I naturally look for the bright side. So discovering that my blood type is B positive made perfect sense! But even this glass-half-full person has had to learn when encouragement needs to wait and listening needs to come first. In this episode, I share what my daughter helped me recognize about my positivity, why I was an angry teenager despite my h...
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