Intimacy Coordinator

That’s How They Make Cupid (w/ Jazmyn W, Fiona Cauley, and Fumi Abe)

Intimacy Coordinator

Show Notes

On an all-new panel episode of Bad Dates, host Joel Kim Booster welcomes comedians Jazmyn W, Fiona Cauley, and Fumi Abe to discuss their most iconic dating fiascos. First he’ll ask the group "what is one thing you should never do on Valentine’s Day?" Then, Jazmyn is on a date with the mayor of a bar where everybody knows his name, Fiona senses things are about to get spooky at this suburban Chili’s, and Fumi meets a model who takes his digits. Well, one digit, into her mouth.

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Joel Kim Booster: Psychosexual, Fire Island, Loot Season 3

Jazmyn W: @jazmynw on socials, new podcast Quit Playin’ with Jazmyn and Amber, check socials for upcoming tour dates

Fiona Cauley: @fionacauley on Insta, fionacauley.com for tour dates, podcast Rampin’ Up

Fumi Abe: @thefumiabe on socials for tour dates

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