Show Notes
Olivia hardly knew her father. Her parents divorced when she was two, and she was brought up by her Mum.
Sent to boarding school at the age of eight, she was estranged from her Dad for a decade.
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Struggling financially, and weakened by bulimia, she got a call from out of the blue: it was her father, wanting to rekindle their relationship.
But - as her health deteriorated, and the UK went into lockdown - her Mum dropped a bombshell that changed everything Olivia thought she knew about her family…
Content warning: eating disorders, childhood trauma.
Names have been changed.
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This interview first aired in 2021, under our regular show, with the same title. Now remastered and with an update from Olivia, this playback is paired with our most recent annual instalment of our How To Be A Dad series. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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