Beyond the Monsters

88: Cast Out of Christian Music for Being Gay & Reclaiming the Song That Started It All with Michael Passons, Ty Herndon & Melissa Greene

Beyond the Monsters

Show Notes

Former Avalon members Michael Passons and Melissa Greene alongside country music artist Ty Herndon share the story behind their powerful re-recording of Testify to Love and the deeply personal journey that led them back to a song that now carries an entirely new meaning. Michael opens up about being removed from Avalon because he was gay, the years of silence and healing that followed, and what it meant to finally reclaim his voice nearly two decades later alongside longtime friends Melissa and Ty.

Together, they discuss the lasting impact rejection from faith communities can have on LGBTQ+ people, the trauma of feeling forced to hide who you are, and the complicated relationship many carry with faith after experiencing exclusion and shame. They also reflect on forgiveness, authenticity, personal growth, and why they believe love, faith, and belonging should never be reserved for only a select few. What began as a beloved Christian music classic has become a message of healing, inclusion, hope, and the freedom to finally live as your authentic self.

Listen to Testify To Love https://c44.lnk.to/TestifyToLove

Testify To Love Music Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9l7IPvr6b8s

Michael’s Links: https://www.instagram.com/michaelpassons https://www.tiktok.com/@michaelpassonsmusic https://www.youtube.com/@michaelpassonsmusic

Ty’s Links: https://www.instagram.com/tyherndonofficial https://www.youtube.com/@OfficialTyHerndon https://www.tyherndon.com

Ty’s book: What Mattered Most https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/tyherndon

Melissa’s Links: https://www.instagram.com/melissagreene https://linktr.ee/melissagreene https://www.melissagreene.net https://substack.com/@melissagreene

Resources: The LGBT National Hotline 888-843-4564

The Trevor Project https://www.thetrevorproject.org

Beyond the Monsters Socials: https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters

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